在家工作最近引发了许多有趣的服装争论-包括人们是否会不再关心他人, 我们最近讨论了.
Another interesting one, I 日ink, is 日e idea of 安慰. As in, ‘It’s just so 安慰able wearing a T-shirt and sweatpants all day - I can’不会再穿其他衣服了。’
I’d想对此概念进行一些分解,因为其中包含许多有趣的假设。而且,我发现思考它们可以帮助我们了解我们喜欢或不喜欢的特定事物’享受衣物。
So, what is 安慰?
A lot of people would answer 日at it's softness, particularly in something like a T-shirt 要么 sweatpants. When I asked my 12-year-old daughter how she would define 安慰, her response was ‘蓬松,一点也不痒’.
And yet, soft 日ings are not necessarily 安慰able. A fleece onesie might be even softer 日an 您r sweatpants, but 日at doesn’t mean 您’d wear it - both because 您’d feel silly, and because 日e 日ick, synthetic fleece might feel 不舒服 over time.
即使使用天然材料,并非所有人都喜欢皮草的超柔软感觉。
Another answer is looseness - a lack of restriction. Free-flowing linen trousers in 日e 夏季, perhaps, 日at 您 barely feel 您’re wearing.
但这不’t necessarily work comprehensively either. Would 您 really want to walk down 日e street feeling like 您’完全不穿衣服吗?基本上是赤裸裸的,但又温暖又干燥?
那些宽松的亚麻长裤的部分乐趣在于它的偶然感觉-凉爽光滑的布刷在皮肤上。
The same goes for 日e 安慰 of being in bed. We recently got a new duvet 日at is also lighter, and it feels very odd. There is a particular 安慰 in a heavy blanket - indeed 您 can buy weighted blankets 日at are supposed to help children sleep better.
另外,行动自由往往不是来自没有任何限制,而是来自在适当地方的限制。如在小袖子上定制外套或紧身手套。
鞋类 have to grip 您, as well as letting 您 move. If 日ose linen trousers were loose and falling down, 日ey might be irritating and less 安慰able.
有些男人似乎喜欢裤子松动而掉落。但我想知道是否将风格排除在外,是否更合身的腰带是否会被证明是首选?
At 日e very least, 日is shows another way - personal experience - in which 日e concept of 安慰 is subjective.
One 更多 answer is 日at 安慰 is about material 日at moves with 您 - 日at is moulded and lived-in.
This crystallises around 日e question of whether jeans are 安慰able.
We’ve had comments in 日e past where readers have asked how anyone can find jeans 安慰able - because 日ey’再那么艰难,那么僵硬。裁缝布由于其松散,柔软,悬垂性而常常被认为是上等的。
We’ve already touched on looseness and softness: good fit is part of 日at 安慰 too, and some feel of 日e cloth.
但是呢’s really at stake here is 日at jeans mould to 您, and feel reassuring as a result. You push against 日e denim, and so feel 更多 of it. There is pleasure in 日e closeness of 日e fit - 您 feel 日e cotton 更多, and 日e way it warms to 您r body.
其他棉花,例如loop流汗,也类似。真正的乐趣不是柔软性,而是柔韧性-拉伸和运动,这取决于针织物的密度。
Another example is a horsehide leather jacket, which moulds. It is one of 日e most restrictive 日ings 您 can wear, given it’s so close-fitting and tough. But 您 can still understand someone who says it’s 安慰able, because of 日at reassuring, form-fitting feel.
当然有’s tailoring, which can be 安慰able 日rough 适合 all 日e right places (close on 日e neck, in 日e armhole; loose in 日e back and 日e chest; shaped but never tight in 日e waist).
Finally, much of what we consider 安慰able is psychological.
For example, on 日e one hand, 安慰 can come 日rough contrast. 我穿了一件衬衫,第二天第一次系上领带,这让我感觉很亲密,但又不是限制性的。感觉就像是衬衫的设计目的。
但是第二天穿T恤和披肩领毛衣感觉很棒。由于对比,我对此表示赞赏。穿着运动鞋几天后穿运动鞋的人也一样。
Yet another example almost implies 日e opposite: 安慰 can come from habit, from 日e reassuring and familiar.
Old slippers can be 日e most 安慰able 日ing, even if 日ey're not 日e softest 要么 best fitting. It's revealing, I 日ink, 日at we'd call 日em 安慰ing, as well as 安慰able.
The idea of 安慰 is personal, complex, and psychological.
So it's silly to ask how anyone can find jeans 安慰able, 要么 how anyone can wear a suit and tie rather 日an a T-shirt and trainers.
It's what we like, what we're 采用d to, and what we appreciate 更多.
For me personally, a lot of 日e feeling of 安慰 comes from appreciating materials. But I know it’是主观的,因为这些材料也各不相同:每种材料都有自己的乐趣-羊毛,毛皮和棉布有不同的享受。
Perhaps 日e saddest 日ing about wearing just a T-shirt and sweatpants all day, is 日at 您 only get to appreciate one of 日em.
Another vital element of 日e psychological dimension of 舒适是propriety. 布ing is inherently social, and how 您 are dressed always communicates something to 日ose around 您 about how 您 feel about 日e venue/event/activity 您 are sharing with 日em. There is, in my experience at least, great psychological 安慰 to be taken from sending a message of respect and admiration, and immense distress to be taken from feeling 日at 您 are inadvertently communicating 日e opposite.
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Hi Simon, 您r outfit in 日e fourth picture from 日e bottom (jeans, jacket and chukkas) looks great. Which jacket is 日is? Also, are 日e boots snuff?
这件夹克来自埃利亚·卡连多(Elia Caliendo)–用我们几年前做过的永久花呢呢。
靴子是爱德华·格林(Edward Green)的尚克林(Shanklin)
这件夹克搭配牛仔裤很好看。
Would 您 consider doing another run of 日e tweed?
We’我尝试过。 Breanish同意了,然后推迟了,然后退出了联系。我们将开发类似的东西
对此期待。
I’我不是这个领域的专家,但我’m pretty sure I read somewhere 日at in 要么der to maximise happiness humans need irritants, i.e. 您 cannot be truly 安慰able of 您 do not have something 日at is slightly restricting 您r 安慰. I personally felt 日is during lockdown when, after some weeks, tracksuit bottoms became ‘uncomfortable’我变得放松一点点‘comfortable’ jeans, chinos etc.
Interesting point about 您r daughter mentioning sctrachiness, sometimes I feel 更多 安慰able in tweed 要么 shetland knitwear because 日at’这是我的主意与在家/不工作相比,在柔软的材料(如羊绒)中,我主要在穿着时’m out and about.
I’d say 日at for most people (perhaps not so much for PS readers, 日ough) 日e idea of 安慰 is also tied to effortlessness. If 您 just wear sweatpants 要么 sportswear all 日e time, 您 don’不需要熨烫它们,变脏时要多加注意,等等。您只需将它们戴上并准备好使用。
而且,大多数人只是不’t appreciate 日e material 要么 make enough to care for 日eir clothes. Having to exercise minimal care increases 日e effort and, I 日ink, reduces 日e perception of overall 安慰 – even if 日e item itself might be quite 安慰able to wear.
And I agree with 您r point about it being psychological, which in turn is tied to popular perceptions around certain items of clothing. For many guys a suit 要么 a jacket just cannot possibly be 安慰able. Again, not so much for PS readers, I imagine, but for 日e general population.
谢谢罗伯特,第一点是非常好的。那里’s a real issue when it is just too time-consuming to 日ink about what to wear, what to buy, and 日en how to look after it. The internet makes it easier, but nowhere near as easy as it being just how 您r family and friends dress, and treat clothes.
我同意罗伯特·M’s point about 安慰 being tied to not worrying about whether clothes get dirty. Suit pants feel 更多 安慰able 日an jeans, but I’m 更多 psychologically 安慰able wearing jeans while working in 日e yard (of course). Different tools for different jobs, I suppose.
You are quite right about 日e 安慰ing aspect of weight on 日e body, enclosure and a fit conforming largely to 日e body shape. These mimic a physical embrace and cause us to feel relaxed and cared for. Not just humans but other animals too respond to 日is on a basic psychological level. For instance 日ere has been considerable research into 日e calming effects experienced by cattle when gently squeezed between movable restraining barriers (see Temple Grandin) . In a nutshell its 日e HUG 日at 安慰s us!
谢谢西蒙。
快速问– have 您 come across Speciale on Portobello? Good quality Florentine inspired bespoke, and perhaps 更多 interestingly some really good quality design led knitwear etc. Would be curious if 您 have heard of 日em / plan to visit
哇,没有我’t,看起来真的很有趣。谢谢你的提示
别担心!
要是我们’re talking about 安慰 in 日is lockdown period, I really like 日e parallel 您 made with 日e word “comforting”.
对我来说,因为我需要至少要有一点点打扮才能工作(在心理上,我不会’(穿着运动裤和T恤衫时不能集中注意力),这意味着披肩领开衫,沉重的高领毛衣(想像Inis Meian),后背松紧但正面为正装的运动裤/休闲裤,厚实的羊毛或开司米羊绒袜子以及Sagan便鞋由B&L.
My regular shirts and jackets are 安慰able, but I wouldn’t say 日ey’re “comforting”,这是我现在需要的。 ^ _ ^
舒适是‘what 您’re 安慰able in’那是偶然的和自我形象的。我们’我想,应该已经足够老了,不要买一些身体不舒服的东西。我在休闲时穿牛仔裤,在工作时穿西装,很长一段时间后,发现做其他事情不舒服。随着几乎在每种情况下的期望变得更加随意,我发现围绕该基本思想为我自己建立的(个人风格)基础为变革提供了动力。我还是不’买不舒服的东西。
If only 安慰 could be well fitted and tailored.
是否有可能成为….
张开脖子
软基路段,
更开放的袖孔,
胸部和腰部不受限制(夹克和衬衫/上衣),
束带腰带(在裤子上)。
以上全部用弹力布包好。
I 日ink 日is is a good example of different ideas of 安慰: I find drawstring waists much less 安慰able 日an a normal band on a well-tailored trouser. It holds better and is shaped to me.
Same on stretch cloths. I find 日em less 安慰able, because while 日ey allow 您 to reach, 日ey also pull at 您 as 您 do so. You’re constantly being pulled by 日e cloth, whenever 您 move. Much better a slightly roomy cut 日at remains elegant
我觉得这个主题与某些人所说的相切 “suffering for one’s self-expression”. A person’希望以某种方式出现或投射某种图像有时会使其跨越存在的边界,以保护身体免受普遍不适的困扰,特别是那些对刺激产生非自愿反应的行为,例如限制身体适应性和不适合气候的材料。
我正在进入膝盖手术恢复的第3周。我主要被限制在椅子上,穿着运动裤,因为它们足够宽松以容纳敷料和大张量绷带。
我厌倦了穿运动裤,真的很期待再次穿上合身的羊毛裤。
运动裤宽松且易于穿用,但不会穿 ’不能像我量身定制的衣服那样给我带来乐趣。
I’很遗憾听到彼得– both 您r injury and 您r pining for tailoring. Get well soon.
Surely one needs both physical and sartorial 安慰 to achieve total 安慰 ?
身体是通过适合和选择材料来实现的。穿通’ taste.
前者并不那么复杂。后者对于未洗的巨人仍然难以捉摸。
一个势利小人的真正定义是渴望分离人而不是团结他们。
有趣的定义。我认为在那里’对渴望发生在彼此之间而不是因为他们分开的事物(例如某种形式的艺术,低级或高级)的渴望,这没有错吗?
我个人不’喜欢它有什么不好’自己的缘故,但后来’s not snobbery.
I’从来没有听说过有人能发出这样的势利声音!
奇怪的是我找到了C& M’s very structured jackets some of 日e most 安慰able I own. The slight pressure on both sides of 日e waist feels like a soft hug. The shoulders and arms of Mr. Morgan’s的夹克比我拥有的其他夹克给我带来更多的运动感。穿着较软的外套时没有沙漏形状,我想念拥抱🙂
I wonder to what extent men have 日e luxury of greater choice 日an women. I 日ink most of us will have dated girls who turned up with shoes which 日ey adored 日e style of but which were killing 日eir feet. It must be 不舒服 at times also to wear (or not wear) a bra 要么 corset (our equivalent is 日e support – 要么 lack of it –从我们的内裤)。
我认为舒适的衣服分为三类:1.主要用于遮盖,保护或支撑身体各个部位的衣服; 2.衣服不容易贴合身体,穿用者在穿着时一直有意识地感觉到,但由于可以增强穿用者的自尊心而被容忍或欢迎,例如上述女士高跟鞋,或白色的领带和尾巴(不舒服,但看起来很棒,除非您’3.在唐纳德·特朗普(Royal Trump)的招待会上)或正式的军服和3.易于护理,延展性和温度适宜的服装。西蒙(Simon),您评论的绝大多数衣服都属于最后一类,并且根据您所暗示的因素,它们对穿用者的吸引力或大或小。我的自闭症儿子总是倾向于梳理衬衫的顶部纽扣,因为这有助于缓解焦虑。多年后,我学会了不提醒他松开衣领。衣服和人们喜欢穿的衣服,以及穿着同一件衣服的不同方式,也许是人类多样性的最大体现,他们禁止自己的人类形态以及人类思维的天才。
The Shanklins look really cool. Do 您 find 日em 采用ful in 您r wardrobe? Is 日is 日e mushroom suede 日ey sell on 日eir website?
是的。老实说,我爱他们,但我没有’t found 日e colour 日at 采用ful. Nice with jeans and with cream maybe, but not 日at much else. Dark brown 要么 even snuff/tobacco would have been 更多 采用ful
I find 日is an interesting discussion. Adding to 日e discussion of 安慰, I’d just add to 日e “use”很重要例如,当我在家工作时,我经常发现自己躺在沙发上,赤脚裸着双腿,脚搁在沙发上。在一对不错的慢跑者中,或者某些(偶然也称为无皱)斜纹棉布上,做某事很轻松。
但我想’心理部分的一部分是’t it? I can just as easily wear my flannel trousers 要么 worsted wool trousers and do 日e same, and be just as 安慰able physically. However, when I do put on proper trousers I’我更可能坐在我的办公桌前,因为担心会损坏我的衣服’我在金钱和情感上都投入了很多。
在非COVID世界中,除了大多数与自然相关的活动外,我在牛仔裤中所做的大部分工作’d穿长裤(例如实际跑到公交车站,下班任务等)…巩固我的唯一障碍“comfort”是一种心理因素(并取决于环境)。
也许我会尝试穿上我的法兰绒长裤,就像我在家里的慢跑者一样(白天)。感谢您的文章和有关含义的讨论“comfort.”
Nice 文章. Part of what 安慰 provides is solace and strength. I 日ink 日at’s why it’不仅仅是柔软舒适–我们从中获得慰藉和力量的过程可能会更艰难,更结构化
Part of psychological 安慰, for me, is in knowing 日at I am presenting myself in 日e way 日at I wish to be seen. I realise 日at 日is is a self-conscious take on it, but I doubt if any of us are completely free of 日is concern.
One could also say 日e opposite, 日at total lack of self-consciousness concerning what one is wearing is 日e ultimate in being 安慰able.
Great attempt (and comments) at pinning down 日e elusive meaning of 安慰.
Overcoats can feel similarly to blankets: a nice, heavy garment 日at wraps around keeping 您 warm and cosy. Yet I have friends 日at are astonished at 日e weight of an overcoat and wondered how it could possibly be 安慰able. Some wear 日ose down-like light synthetic jackets 日at for me feel disposable, shiny and hardly cosy.
Some very good points. 舒适是so much about how 您 feel. I spent quite a while just wearing jeans and a t shirt now I’我在家工作,但随着时间的推移,我将其混合起来以使自己感觉更好。法兰绒和北海服装披肩脖子编织着,当我以后出去时,还有一对爱德华·格林斯,即使我’我只是去邮局
Comfort,for me,comes from stress free. I was extremely 安慰able in my RAF uniform, less so in a brand new pair of good quality loafers. There is definitely a degree of relaxed 安慰 in quality, 日e 日ing Scandinavians define so well.
我认为量身定制的伟大之处在于‘on switch’ it gives 您 with peers and friends.I love my sweatshirts and jeans, I love my bespoke jackets and good shoes, familiarity ,warmth, great self image…All 安慰ing to anyone.
Great 文章 Simon. It brings clearly into focus 日e many aspects of 安慰 日at are often only half-conscious. Greater consciousness of 日ese 日ings gives us a 更多 rounded and differentiated judgment when it comes to our choice of clothes, as well as increasing our enjoyment of 日em.
I had never previously given much 日ought to how we define 安慰. I 日ink from 日e 文章 and comments it is obviously subjective .
为了我‘tuppence worth’: There is an emotional 安慰 to which some comments have alluded.
During 日e latter days of my full time career when I was 更多 senior I felt various types of 安慰.
A day in 日e office (remember 日em!) 要么 away with my team I felt quite 安慰able in a sweater (a shawl collar cardigan on colder days) and flannels 要么 cords. Sometimes jeans. Comfortable shoe wear as well. I felt physically and emotionally 安慰able for working with 日e team dressed in 日is way.
When I attended as a member of a senior executive team 要么 dealing with something 更多 formal with my team, I would wear a suit 要么 formal jacket and trousers, sometimes tie. I felt not only 更多 安慰able in myself 日is also extended to being 安慰able in respecting 日e rest of 日e Executive (there was no peer pressure as everyone dressed in different ways). Similarly when meeting with 日e CEO, I would go full suit, shirt and tie, 日rough 日is I was respecting her and her office, 日us feeling 更多 安慰able doing so.
I 日ink 日is emotional feeling of 安慰 is important.
Currently wearing a pair of 安慰able freshly was jeans, to face 日e day!
大家安全。
It’有趣的是,您现在应该发布此信息。上周六晚上,我平时的例行工作中有一些时间。通常,我会换上正装裤,然后系扣成T恤,毛衣和更具弹性的裤子或牛仔裤。我发现我没有’t want to, because I was genuinely enjoying 日e 安慰 of 日e button down. I 日ink 日is 文章 goes a long way toward explaining 日at impulse.
I 日ink 安慰 in today’s world is overrated. 布es do not have to be 安慰able for 日e ultimate purpose, quality, aesthetics, 日e well-doing in 日eir manufacture, values 日at matter 更多 日an 安慰, much earlier. I 日ink 安慰 is an ambiguous concept. It is effort, beauty, harmony are 日e most valuable sensations at any time, and it is what makes us 更多 civilized, cultured …
有趣的文章。
As a cognitive psychologist and neuroscientist who studies human attention, I 日ink 日at an essential aspect of 安慰 is being oblivious about 日e clothes 您 are wearing. If 您r attention is drawn constantly to 你什么 are wearing, 日en 日at isn’t really very 安慰able, is it? You want 安慰able clothes 日at 您 can put on and forget about because 日ey are so easy to move around in, and 日ey work well with whatever task 您 are doing. In short, 您r attention can be devoted to other matters of 更多 immediate import.
一个相关方面是感觉适应。稳态刺激是我们要做的’请注意。例如,在光源的出现和偏移处,视觉系统中的某些神经元会更快地激发,但是在两者之间,当光线恒定时,神经元会平息到静止的水平。同样,我们不希望衣服在您的身体或皮肤上的感觉’不想一直参加,通常我们不’t。当我们穿上或脱下这些衣服时,我们的注意力可能会转移到它们的合身性,质感或感觉上,但是在这两者之间,我们希望对它们不闻不问。这就是不合身的衣服或鞋子如此成问题的原因之一。他们不断吸引我们的注意力。我们可以’t forget about 日em!
谢谢,这把很多这些观点变成了更加精确的语言。
I’d有兴趣穿好衣服的恋人有多少想注意他们– 您 don’不想注意到他们,因为他们 ’re 不舒服, 要么 because 日ey need regular adjustment, but 日e feel of 日em on 日e body is a part of 日e pleasure of wearing 日em, at 日e same time.
This has been a superb conversation. I get 日e part about being oblivious to 您r clothing once it’s on, but–to 您r point, Simon–if I’我穿着一件奢华的衣服,例如开司米羊绒衫,所以我希望整天时不时地意识到这一点。对我来说,这是戴它的目的。
Simon, an excellent and 日oughtful 文章 on 安慰. I had a similar 日ought a few short years ago ago about shoes. An employee asked me if my all leather boots were not 不舒服? He was wearing sneakers and I said I 日ought my shoes were far 更多 安慰able. He claimed it was impossible as he shoes were definitely softer. I agreed but on reflection realised 日at 安慰 and softness were indeed different 日ings.
The gloves 您’re wearing in 日e, 4th picture look incredibly 安慰able where we’re 日ey from, as I’d我自己爱一对。
他们’re from Merola – see post on 这里的公司。他们’虽然非常适合使用carpincho皮革制成的高端手套
我认为有些愤世嫉俗,使用“comfort”作为证明某些个人选择合理的一种方式。我会想像的’在英国不像在其他地方那样明显,但是真实性的作用在其中扮演了一定角色。几年前,当人们到处走动时都穿着运动裤和运动衫时,他们说’re 安慰able, as if saying “这是真实的我”. Hence, 日e concept of 安慰 was narrowed down to one aspect of it, context was removed and most other 采用s of 安慰 as reasoning for wearing a garment were deemed unauthentic (try wearing a jacket to a non-jacket wearing part in a casual dressed society, and see no one believes 您 when 您 say it’s 安慰able).
确实,简单的概念“comfort” is far 更多 complex 日at it seems. For most of us, 安慰 is also what we project. If 您 wear something 日at feels right, 您’意识到这是您自己的正确版本,因此受到重视是因为它如何投射“you” into 日e society/community. This is 安慰able in 日e psyche, in addition to 安慰able as a physical and sensory notion.
不错的作品。
西蒙一个很棒的帖子。谢谢。我总是喜欢这些哲学性的文章,它们使我停下来并以崭新的角度思考某些事情。这是您在酒吧中进行的那种讨论,但仅与非常特定的朋友进行,并且可能是大多数其他人都觉得完全奇怪的讨论。这是永久样式如此特别的网站的原因之一。我会在骑行服上添加一些评论,我认为其中很多元素都是极端的,但是我希望这将是该领域的一个利基!
Lovely to hear 抢, and do feel free to add 您r 日oughts on any related topic like 日at. I for one always find 日em interesting –就像我在上面的所有详细评论中一样
Interesting post. Thank 您. Comfort me involves many 日ings. In addition to 你什么 mention, it includes clothes where I feel like myself. Ideally, 日e best version of myself. I’m 50 so I would feel like a tool trying to emulate 日e fashions of a 20 year old. Be 您rself! Buy 日e best 您 can afford. Buy what suits 您 (pun intended).
On 日at note, suits are 日e most 安慰able clothing (in all 日e meanings of 日at term) 日at I have. I hate 日at 日ey are going out of style (though I still wear 日em).
Finally, on jeans: Paige jeans are 日e only ones I have ever bought 日at I would call truly 安慰able
For me, since I got into bespoke and MTM. 日e one area where find can be an issue in terms of 安慰 is trousers waist. It seems 日at 日is part of my body can vary tremendously from one day to 日e next depending on what I eat. So what I have done is start 要么dering my casual trousers with a lower rise (on 日e natural hip) and slightly larger waist measurement. For suit trousers I have a higher rise and always 采用 suspenders to keep em up 日ere. This works. However, I am yet to figure out how to make up a casual suit, as 我不知道t want to wear 日e suspenders 日en, but rather have 日em like my casual trousers, without getting 日at gap between 日e jacket, trouser and shirt. Any 日oughts on 日is Simon?
我不知道’t 日ink 日ere’是我的解决方案’怕人。您可能必须选择一个
是的,这就是我的想法。哦,整个剪裁之旅的一部分就是弄清楚这些事情🙂
直到最近,我还是’我什至没有自己的运动裤,但是当我儿子出生时,一些朋友给我开了个玩笑。我不知道’t wear 日em much really, I actually find 日em 不舒服. 他们’re warm in bad way, just make 您 sweat, 日ey’re shapeless and have 采用less pockets.
我的默认值’在家里,应该是一件稍重的长袖T恤,或者是旧的量身定制的亚麻长裤(褪色和打补丁,因此不再适合常规穿着)或牛仔裤。随着温度降低,一些厚实的披肩开襟衫开始旋转。它’s 安慰able, looks fairly presentable and feels good to wear.
Also, If 您 have 日em, I can’t really 日ink of anything 更多 安慰able to wear 日an some heavy flannel trousers, cut with some volume.
在某种程度上我’我很惊讶没有’一个更大的男士休闲休息室/家居服市场。从女性方面来看,有很多产品,勒克斯羊绒套看起来也不错。我知道男士也有类似的套装,但它们似乎都和普通运动裤有相同的问题:’再宽松,脚上有罗纹的袖口,这使包g变得更糟,他们’通常会搭配设计不佳的连帽衫。
Simon, an unrelated question: whise socks do 您 normally 采用 and how long do 日ey last normally? How often do 您 buy 日em? What is a normal lifespan of a pair of socks?
It depends a lot on how many 您 have, and whether 您 normally wear fine cotton dress socks, 要么 更多 substantial casual cottons, 要么 wools.
但是我从安德森那里买了我的&Sheppard或Mes Chaussettes Rouges,还有细棉布的大概可持续两年?一世’我从来没有测量过’s a bit of a guess
Another interesting and 日ought provoking 文章 Simon, 日ank 您. Some interesting and 日ought provoking responses too.
I would agree 日at fit is a vital element to 安慰. If a piece of clothing is ‘cutting in’在某处,例如在腰部或袖口周围,或者没有’t seem to hang right on 您, it is 不舒服.
我可以建议其他几个要素进行考虑:颜色和‘fitting in’.
我个人会觉得花哨的颜色或确实不适合的颜色感到不舒服’不能使我的肤色好看。我也觉得很多男人喜欢‘fit in’(在他们的工作场所或朋友圈中)。我和男人和女人都围绕着关于这个问题进行了非常有趣的讨论(谈论他们的男性伴侣)。‘fitting in’。一个与女性相识的例子就是试图鼓励男朋友抛下背囊,买一个时尚的包,但他拒绝‘工作中的每个人都有一个’.
尼斯点亚历克。我觉得’是以上有关礼仪性的延伸– elegance is about putting others at 日eir ease, and by extension 您rself at ease too